Guarding the Heart: Love, Purity, and the Danger of Division

The sermon offers a strong call to spiritual maturity and community accountability, effectively using cultural illustrations to highlight the dangers of narcissism and division. However, the theological framework for sanctification leans heavily on human willpower rather than the empowering work of the Holy Spirit, and the pastoral tone occasionally slips into coarse language that undermines the message of grace.

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Theological Status: COMPROMISED (Worldly/Sloppy) Biblical Parallel(Archetype): Pergamum
❓ What do these grades mean?
🔍 Biblical Discernment: The 7 Church Parallels
The Faithful Parallels Smyrna • Philadelphia
Teaching that parallels the churches that endure suffering with true spiritual riches (Rev 2:9) and keep the Word of Christ without denial despite having "little strength" (Rev 3:8).
The Cold Orthodox Parallel Ephesus
Teaching that upholds doctrinal precision yet parallels the loss of the "first love"—the vital, motivating power of the Gospel (Rev 2:4).
The Compromised Parallel Pergamum
Teaching that parallels churches tolerating the "doctrine of Balaam" through cultural accommodation (Rev 2:14), characterized by weak boundaries, sloppy theology, and worldly compromise.
The Corrupted & Dead Parallels Thyatira • Sardis • Laodicea
Teaching that parallels churches with active heresy, synergism, therapeutic deism, or dead orthodoxy (Rev 2:20, Rev 3:1, Rev 3:17). These represent systemic, fundamental errors that corrupt the Gospel engine.
Why strictly "Mark & Avoid"?
We do not issue this rating to attack the speaker, but to protect the listener. This ministry's overall teaching trend consistently deviates from sound doctrine. As per Romans 16:17, we identify these patterns so believers can guard their hearts.
Date: 2026-03-01 | Church: Calvary Chapel | Speaker: Jack Hibbs

🧐 Overview

Theological Verdict & Summary

Sermon Summary: In a world obsessed with self-image and division, how do we maintain deep familial love and doctrinal purity? This sermon challenges believers to reject passivity, avoid divisive influences, and actively disciple others.

Pastoral Analysis: The sermon offers a strong call to spiritual maturity and community accountability, effectively using cultural illustrations to highlight the dangers of narcissism and division. However, the theological framework for sanctification leans heavily on human willpower rather than the empowering work of the Holy Spirit, and the pastoral tone occasionally slips into coarse language that undermines the message of grace.

Biblical Parallel (Archetype): Pergamum — The sermon blends orthodox truth with minor worldly philosophies. While the core message of doctrinal purity is sound, the reliance on human effort for sanctification and the use of culturally coarse language indicate a compromise between biblical truth and worldly methods, characteristic of a church holding to truth but struggling with its application and tone.

Big Idea: The Christian journey involves embracing deep familial love and mutual encouragement while simultaneously maintaining doctrinal purity by avoiding divisive influences and protecting spiritual innocence. [00:02:33 ▶️ 📄]

🎨 The Visual Metaphor

The gate symbolizes discernment and guarding against divisive influences, while the sunlit grove represents the deep familial love and mutual encouragement found within the faithful community. The unreadable runes emphasize the mystery and depth of theological truth that requires careful, humble instruction to understand.


📖 How they Handle Scripture & Jesus

  • Primary Text: Romans 16
  • Usage Classification: Thematic
  • Text-to-Talk Ratio: High
  • Pulpit Decorum: ⚠️ CAUTION - The use of coarse language ('lunatics', 'sick, sick, sick people') and personal attacks ('you're crazy') undermines the dignity of the pulpit and the message of grace.

✝️ Christological Focus: Moralistic/Imitative

"The sermon focuses on moral behavior (avoiding division, shielding children) and human effort rather than pointing to Christ's work as the source of power for these behaviors."

Scripture Saturation: Verses Read: 26 | Referenced: 3 | Alluded: 1

Passages Read Aloud:

  • Romans 16:1-2 [00:02:48 ▶️ 📄]
    "I commend to you Phoebe, our sister, who is a servant, watch, who is a servant of the church in centria how many churches today function because of faithful women this church does that you may receive her in the lord in the manner worthy of the saints"
  • Romans 16:3-5 [00:04:21 ▶️ 📄]
    "greet Priscilla and Aquila. my fellow workers in christ jesus who risk their own necks for my life wow to whom not only i give thanks but also the churches of the gentiles likewise greet the church that is in their house"
  • Romans 16:6 [00:07:44 ▶️ 📄]
    "greet my beloved Eponitis, who is the first fruits of Achaia to Christ."
  • Romans 16:7 [00:08:40 ▶️ 📄]
    "greet Andronicus and Junia, my countrymen, that means fellow Jews, and my fellow prisoners. Who of note among the apostles, wait a minute, wow. These two are mentioned here, Andronicus and Junia. They're not apostles, but they are not among the apostles, meaning this. They may not be apostles, but they are doing the work as though they were apostles."
  • Romans 16:8-9 [00:10:53 ▶️ 📄]
    "greet Amplius, my beloved in the Lord, and greet Urbanus, our fellow worker in Christ."
  • Romans 16:10-11 [00:12:00 ▶️ 📄]
    "greet Apelles approved in Christ. Greet those who are of the household of Aristobulus."
  • Romans 16:11-12 [00:13:27 ▶️ 📄]
    "great Herodion, my countryman. greet those who are of the household of narcissists how'd you like to have a a name like that who are in the Lord"
  • Romans 16:12-13 [00:18:51 ▶️ 📄]
    "greet Tryphena and Tryphosa who have labored in the Lord greet the beloved Persis who labored much in the Lord verse 13 great Rufus chosen in the Lord and his mother and mine"
  • Romans 16:14-15 [00:22:47 ▶️ 📄]
    "Greet that guy. And the other one. And Hermas, Potrabas, Hermes. And the brethren who are with them, greet, let's try this, Philologus and Julia, Nereus and his sister, and Olympus. And all the saints who are with them."
  • Romans 16:16 [00:23:24 ▶️ 📄]
    "Greet one another with a holy kiss. Not here, but back in Rome. The churches of Christ greet you."
  • Romans 16:17 [00:23:40 ▶️ 📄]
    "now as I'm getting ready to leave now hear this I urge you brethren note circle the word note in your bible keep your eyes on them it means mark them tag them hold them in contempt watch out for them I'm warning you who Paul who are you speaking of those who cause divisions and offenses contrary to the doctrine which you've learned and avoid them."
  • Romans 16:18 [00:30:26 ▶️ 📄]
    "for those listen for those who are such do not serve our Lord Jesus Christ but their own belly and by smooth words and flattering speech deceive the hearts of the simple."
  • Romans 16:19 [00:31:45 ▶️ 📄]
    "for your obedience has become known to all. Therefore, I am glad on your behalf, but I want you to be wise in what is good. This is so great. Be wise in what is good. And in other words, learn all the good stuff you can and be really dumb about the evil stuff. You don't need to study evil. Well, I'm doing a research paper on morality, so I have to do 200 pages, but I've done 900 pages on pornography. Okay, you're crazy. Be innocent regarding evil things."
  • Romans 16:20 [00:34:16 ▶️ 📄]
    "and the God of peace will crush Satan. I love this. And the God of peace will crush Satan under your feet shortly. I hope today is shortly. Grace, the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you, amen."
  • Romans 16:21-23 [00:34:31 ▶️ 📄]
    "Timothy, my fellow worker, And Lysias, Jason, and Sosipater, my countrymen, another Jew, greet you. Verse 22, I, this is cool. This is Paul's secretary because I wouldn't have the time to get into it. But you know how Paul had a horrible vision. Did you know that? He writes in another place that you have seen, I've written this epistle with my own hand and you have seen that I have had to write with you with giant letters. Think of that. And it says here that Tertullus, who wrote this epistle, greet you in the Lord. So Paul spoke it and he's writing. Verse 23, Gaius, my host and the host of the whole church, greets you. Erastus, the treasurer of the city, greets you. Curatus, a brother, the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you all, he says, amen."
  • Romans 16:25-27 [00:35:33 ▶️ 📄]
    "look at verse 25 he says now to him who is able to establish you according to my gospel that is the message Paul preached and the preaching of Jesus Christ according to the revelation of the mystery kept secret since the foundation of the world began but now made manifest by the prophetic scriptures church family you should love Bible prophecy because guess what Paul just said Paul just said the revelation of the gospel of Jesus Christ is prophetic scripture I just I just want to read the Gospels just know this you're reading prophecy when you read the Gospels you like that I like that I love that made known to all nations according to the commandment of the everlasting God for obedience to the faith verse 27 to God alone wise be glory through Jesus Christ forever and Amen, he says."

Key References: John 15, Colossians, Romans 16:1-27


🎙️ Sermon Content & Delivery

Word Count: 4,982 words

📌 Key Topics Addressed

  • Women in Ministry [00:03:13 ▶️ 📄]
    > The pastor highlights Phoebe and Priscilla as key examples of women who were essential pillars, helpers, and disciplers in the early church, countering the idea that Christianity is exclusively a 'man's religion'.
  • Ordination and Ministry [00:09:22 ▶️ 📄]
    > The pastor argues that ordination is not determined by seminary degrees or human institutions, but by God and observable fruit, asserting that all born-again believers are ordained ministers to their specific calling.
  • Narcissism [00:14:27 ▶️ 📄]
    > Using the etymology of the name 'Narcissus' from Greek mythology, the pastor illustrates the destructive nature of self-obsession and contrasts it with the gospel's ability to rescue individuals from self-idolatry.
  • Narcissism and Spiritual Health [00:17:35 ▶️ 📄]
    > The pastor connects the biblical figure of Narcissus to modern narcissism, arguing that self-obsession leads to spiritual starvation, but God can rescue individuals from themselves.
  • Spiritual Mentorship and Older Saints [00:19:11 ▶️ 📄]
    > Using the example of Rufus's mother, the pastor encourages younger believers to 'latch onto' spirit-filled, older Christians for their calming, sweet influence.
  • Discernment and Avoidance of Divisive People [00:24:38 ▶️ 📄]
    > The pastor interprets 'mark them, note them, tag them' as a command to identify fault-finders, gossips, and argumentative people, and to completely avoid and break off friendships with them.
  • Response to Criticism and Falsehoods [00:28:15 ▶️ 📄]
    > The pastor advises against answering fools in their folly, using his own experience with internet rumors about his net worth to illustrate that one should not engage with lunatics or false accusations.
  • Protecting Innocence [00:32:19 ▶️ 📄]
    > The pastor argues against exposing children to evil prematurely, citing King David's failure as a warning against letting children 'peek' at sin, and urging parents to teach good rather than exposing them to the world's evil.
  • Parenting and Child Protection [00:32:38 ▶️ 📄]
    > The pastor critiques the cultural mindset that children must be exposed to obscene content to 'grow up,' arguing instead that parents must actively shield children's innocence.
  • Biblical Illustration of King David [00:33:33 ▶️ 📄]
    > The pastor uses King David's failure to look at Bathsheba as a cautionary tale, noting that even a man after God's own heart could not handle such exposure, leading to negative consequences for his family.
  • Divine Victory and Gospel Revelation [00:34:16 ▶️ 📄]
    > The pastor transitions to the assurance that God will crush Satan, linking the gospel message to prophetic scripture and the mystery kept secret since the foundation of the world.

🖼️ Illustrations & Stories

  • Sermon Illustration [00:14:46 ▶️ 📄]
    > The pastor recounts the myth of Narcissus, who fell in love with his own reflection in a pond and starved to death because he could not look away from himself, using this as an analogy for modern narcissism.
  • Sermon Illustration [00:17:35 ▶️ 📄]
    > The pastor describes a recent experience at a Lakers game in LA where he observed a woman stopping in the middle of a crosswalk to take selfies, ignoring the traffic and pedestrians, as a real-world example of narcissistic behavior.
  • Sermon Illustration [00:17:52 ▶️ 📄]
    > The pastor describes a woman in a Los Angeles crosswalk who stopped in the middle of the road to take a selfie, ignoring traffic and pedestrians, using this as a visual example of modern narcissism.
  • Sermon Illustration [00:19:26 ▶️ 📄]
    > The pastor references the movie 'Dennis the Menace' (specifically the scene where Mrs. Wilson reads 'Winkin', Blinkin' and Nod' to Dennis) to illustrate the sweet, calming influence of a godly older woman, comparing her to Rufus's mother.
  • Sermon Illustration [00:28:27 ▶️ 📄]
    > The pastor shares a personal anecdote about internet rumors claiming he is worth $25 million; he explains that he did not respond or check his bank because he refused to engage with 'lunatics' and knew the rumor was false.
  • Sermon Illustration [00:33:33 ▶️ 📄]
    > The pastor uses the biblical story of King David staying behind from war to look at Bathsheba from his roof as a cautionary tale against exposing children (or oneself) to sin, contrasting it with David's advice to his son Solomon.
  • Sermon Illustration [00:33:33 ▶️ 📄]
    > The pastor recounts the biblical story of King David, who was told to skip war, sleep in, and walk on his palace roof, where he saw Bathsheba. The pastor argues that if David, a great king, could not handle this exposure, modern parents should not expose children to such things.

🚀 Calls to Action (Application)


🧭 Biblical Alignment Dashboard

Overall Verdict: Compromised / Weak

CategoryStatusReasoning
Gospel Presentation ❌ FAIL The Gospel Engine is compromised by a reliance on human effort for sanctification. The pastor commands believers to 'keep yourself' and 'obey' without anchoring this obedience in the finished work of Christ or the indwelling Spirit, leading to a Christless sanctification model.
Soteriology ⚠️ WEAK While salvation by faith is implied, the application of sanctification is presented as a work of human willpower ('You keep yourself'), neglecting the necessary role of the Holy Spirit's empowerment.
Bibliology ✅ PASS The sermon respects the authority of Scripture, though the application of specific verses regarding ordination and division is somewhat subjective.
Hermeneutic ⚠️ WEAK The interpretation of 'ordination' as observable by fruit for all believers is a subjective application that stretches the biblical definition of formal church office.
Theology Proper ✅ PASS The doctrine of God is presented accurately, though the emphasis on human effort in sanctification slightly distorts the view of God's sustaining grace.
Sacramentology ⚪ N/A No specific sacramental errors detected.
Confessional Depth ❌ FAIL The sermon lacks depth in explaining the theological mechanics of sanctification, relying on moral exhortation rather than theological grounding.

⚙️ The Gospel Engine (Confessional Distinctives)

The Law And Wrath: Not observed in the sermon.

Total Depravity And Inability:

"It's in our hearts already." [00:33:19 ▶️ 📄]

Active Obedience Of Christ: Not observed in the sermon.

The Cross And Atonement: Not observed in the sermon.

✅ Commendations

Cultural Engagement | Effective Use of Cultural Illustrations

The pastor effectively uses relatable cultural examples, such as the myth of Narcissus and modern selfie culture, to illustrate the spiritual danger of self-obsession and division.

Pastoral Care | Emphasis on Spiritual Mentorship

The call for believers to attach themselves to mature, older believers for spiritual stability is a strong, biblical application that fosters community and accountability.

Doctrinal Clarity | Warning Against Division

The clear command to identify and avoid those who cause division and teach contrary to doctrine provides necessary protection for the congregation's spiritual health.

⚠️ Theological Concerns

🟠 Human Effort Over Divine Empowerment (The Error of Self-Sufficiency)

Root Cause: Semi-Pelagianism (The Error of Partial Self-Sufficiency)

"You keep yourself in the love of God. You obey him. You follow him. Just make sure you do not fall victim to the lies in the deceits of this age that is energized by doctrines of demons and deceiving spirits." [00:31:36 ▶️ 📄]

Correction: I am the vine, ye are the branches: He that abideth in me, and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit: for without me ye can do nothing.

🟡 Coarse Language and Personal Attacks (The Error of Unedifying Speech)

Root Cause: Worldly Wisdom (The Error of Ungodly Speech)

"lunatics ... you're crazy" [00:29:04 ▶️ 📄]

Correction: Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.

🟡 Overgeneralization of Ordination (The Error of Misapplied Doctrine)

Root Cause: Antinomianism (The Error of Disregarding Order)

"I would say with confidence, if you're a born again believer, you are ordained as a minister of the gospel of God to the work that he has called you to do." [00:10:03 ▶️ 📄]

Correction: And he gave some, apostles; and some, prophets; and some, evangelists; and some, pastors and teachers; For the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ:


📜 Full Sermon Transcript (Audit)

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[00:00:00] [SPEAKER SPEAKER_01]
[00:00:00] I'm going to ask you to get out your camera and take a picture. All of you deserve this. All of you deserve this. Five years we have been working on this diploma. Take a picture for yourself. We started on April 11th, 2021. It is March 1st, 2026. I stalled as long as I could waiting for the Lord to come back. Waiting and waiting for Him to return during the book of Romans.
[00:00:30] but maybe he's sooner now than ever before.
[00:00:33] But the fact is, if anybody ever tells you, your church doesn't study the Bible, you can say, what?
[00:00:41] You can say, we just spent five years going through the book of Romans, and that was time well spent.
[00:00:49] And this is not five years of me being gone.
[00:00:52] This is, I forget the number of sermons, but it's a massive amount of sermons.
[00:00:57] I just hope, I'm never asked to put this in a book form.
[00:00:59] I'd rather be dead. This is too much. I'm going to read the scriptures together. Let's stand.
[00:01:05] I'll read them for time's sake. But, you know, let's do this. We don't have the time. Sit down.
[00:01:12] Please sit down. Sorry. But you needed a stretch anyway. Friends, listen. When you go to the book of Romans and any commentary that you pick up, you know, it's the book of Romans chapter 16.
[00:01:28] it's the end isn't it funny that it has it has the least amount of commentary by commentators though those are biblical scholars they have the least amount to say you want to know why because paul doesn't talk any doctrine at all it's all love heart feelings and emotions
[00:01:47] that he's speaking in his farewell address he is saying things here that begin to tenderize your heart. And so we can't put this study in chapter 16 in three points and two illustrations and these meanings of this. Nope, can't do it. Why? Because it'd be as though we're invading
[00:02:11] some very dear personal letter that someone would write to the other and insert ourselves and say, I don't think you should have used that word there. Or how come you didn't do three points on that one. No, you know what? This is Paul saying to them, I love you guys. And I am speaking
[00:02:33] to you personally, he's saying. So the title of this message is friends and foes in our Christian journey. We start with this in Romans 16. And again, I'll just read it and comment on it.
[00:02:48] I commend to you Phoebe, our sister, who is a servant, watch, who is a servant of the church in centria how many churches today function because of faithful women this church does that you may receive her in the lord in the manner worthy of the saints
[00:03:13] and assist her in whatever business she has need of you is christianity um brutal on women is faith in jesus christ and the word of god is it a man's religion you have paul the apostle saying
[00:03:33] Phoebe is precious among the saints so whatever she needs you do it because she has labored she's awesome Phoebe you can search her name out later some of you I commend this study to you
[00:03:46] do a biographical study on the names that you're going to hear you'll be super blessed Phoebe he says for indeed she has been a helper of many and of myself also God bless the women of the church
[00:04:04] of the Lord Jesus Christ who throughout the Gospels and the book of Acts have proven to be some of the greatest pillars in God's work.
[00:04:17] So says the Bible.
[00:04:21] Remember that.
[00:04:23] Verse three goes on to say, greet Priscilla and Aquila.
[00:04:26] I find this fascinating.
[00:04:27] Whenever you hear Priscilla and Aquila mentioned, Priscilla is always mentioned first.
[00:04:33] What does that mean?
[00:04:35] It means that she probably has the influence first.
[00:04:38] It probably means perhaps that she came to Christ first, and then her husband, Aquila. But this couple were amazing. They were disciplers of other believers. They loved taking people in and strengthening them in the word of God.
[00:04:53] One of them is Apollos. Do you remember the man, the young man, Apollos? Apollos was a tremendous orator. I mean, this guy could read a menu and people would get saved. But he didn't have theology
[00:05:09] all that straight. And guess who came and straightened him out? Priscilla and Aquila sat him down and said, buddy, dude, you've been anointed, but you're really dumb about a lot of the stuff in the Bible. We're going to help you with that. And they discipled him. Couples today
[00:05:24] who love the Lord Jesus. Be today the Priscilla and the Aquila of your culture, your generation, those that are around you in life. This is the church of the living God. We are not a company.
[00:05:36] we're not a business we are a family and husbands and wives who walk with Jesus need to teach other young people how to walk with Jesus too it's no time for us to be silent I wonder how many
[00:05:54] in this service God's good hand is upon this particular couple or that couple or this couple over here and they're disciples and they don't even know it yet don't answer out loud but are you a married couple are you uh walking with the lord then i would say this to you be looking
[00:06:16] for how god wants to use you and he goes on to say there in verse 3 my fellow workers in christ jesus who risk their own necks for my life wow to whom not only i give thanks but also the churches
[00:06:33] of the gentiles likewise greet the church that is in their house they had a home bible study Romans 16, verse five says, greet.
[00:06:47] By the way, the word greet, you're gonna hear it a lot.
[00:06:49] Greet, it can mean embrace.
[00:06:52] It can mean, most technically in that culture, we don't do this, I get it, and I don't wanna do it in this culture.
[00:06:58] But you know the kiss on either side of the cheek?
[00:07:01] Okay, look, go to Europe, knock yourself out.
[00:07:03] But let's not do that here.
[00:07:04] We have germs here.
[00:07:09] See, Pastor, you afraid of germs?
[00:07:11] No, but God wants us to walk in wisdom.
[00:07:14] So you keep your germs, I'll keep my germs.
[00:07:19] But they would kiss, greet each other.
[00:07:21] Many times the Bible says, greet each other with a kiss.
[00:07:25] Now, if any young man says to your daughter, the Bible says, greet each other with a kiss, that's where you send them away.
[00:07:44] And so, greet my beloved Eponitis, who is the first fruits of Achaia to Christ.
[00:07:53] You know what that simply means?
[00:07:55] Paul is saying, will you guys, remember that guy?
[00:07:57] Can you guys tell him hi?
[00:07:59] I'm on my way to Rome, but tell him hi for me.
[00:08:03] That guy, I understand he was the first convert when the gospel was preached.
[00:08:07] He was the first guy to give his heart to Christ.
[00:08:09] Isn't that cool?
[00:08:10] First fruits.
[00:08:13] You know some people who are first fruits.
[00:08:18] It's beautiful.
[00:08:20] He says, greet Mary or Miriam, who labored much for us.
[00:08:25] We don't know exactly which Mary this is.
[00:08:28] There's a lot of Miriam.
[00:08:29] It's Miriam.
[00:08:29] There's no Mary in the Bible, by the way.
[00:08:31] It's only in English.
[00:08:32] It's Miriam, Miriam, who labored much for us.
[00:08:40] Verse 7, greet Andronicus and Junia, my countrymen, that means fellow Jews, and my fellow prisoners.
[00:08:48] Oh, that means they had been arrested for the gospel.
[00:08:52] Paul wasn't the only one to experience arrest and persecution.
[00:08:58] Who of note among the apostles, wait a minute, wow.
[00:09:06] These two are mentioned here, Andronicus and Junia.
[00:09:09] They're not apostles, but they are not among the apostles, meaning this.
[00:09:14] They may not be apostles, but they are doing the work as though they were apostles.
[00:09:20] I like that.
[00:09:22] Christian, do not be a spectator to what God wants to do.
[00:09:26] Well, I'm not ordained.
[00:09:28] How do you know?
[00:09:30] Do you think ordination comes from me giving you that diploma that you saw a moment ago?
[00:09:35] Do you think ordination comes from Liberty University or Dallas Theological Seminary or Multnomah or Moody Bible Institute?
[00:09:44] Is that how ordination comes?
[00:09:46] The Bible says no.
[00:09:48] The Bible says in John chapter 15 that ordination comes from God and it is observable by the fruit that comes from His ordaining us into the ministry of our great King and Savior.
[00:10:03] I would say with confidence, if you're a born again believer, you are ordained as a minister of the gospel of God to the work that he has called you to do.
[00:10:15] But my friend Colossians warns us, do not judge yourselves among yourselves lest you be found to be a fool.
[00:10:23] Don't look at somebody else's work and say, well, they speak a lot better than I do.
[00:10:27] I guess I shouldn't speak at all.
[00:10:29] Don't do that.
[00:10:34] God has called you.
[00:10:36] Don't compare yourself to Billy Graham or some great orator.
[00:10:43] Well, I can't do that because of them.
[00:10:44] Excuse me, no, listen.
[00:10:46] That was their field to work in.
[00:10:49] You have yours, Christian.
[00:10:53] And so he goes on to say in verse eight, greet Amplius, my beloved in the Lord, and greet Urbanus, our fellow worker in Christ.
[00:11:07] And this name's hard to say.
[00:11:09] Everybody, I try to get pronunciation in the scripture.
[00:11:14] I even went to a Greek thing and they messed it up too.
[00:11:17] But greet the guy who we couldn't say his name.
[00:11:24] Paul calls him my beloved.
[00:11:26] Isn't that awesome?
[00:11:28] You think that's, listen, my beloved.
[00:11:31] That's a very tenderhearted comment.
[00:11:33] Paul, a man of God, weak in physical appearance, strong in faith.
[00:11:40] Paul says, you know that guy we couldn't ever say his name?
[00:11:46] He's beloved to me.
[00:11:48] I love that guy.
[00:11:53] It's awesome.
[00:11:57] And so he goes on and he says in verse 10, greet Apelles approved in Christ.
[00:12:06] That means the man was tested somehow.
[00:12:09] Greet those who are of the household of Aristobulus.
[00:12:18] By the way, you know these names, many of them are Greek gods.
[00:12:23] These people were named after Greek gods, and then they came to Christ.
[00:12:29] I like that.
[00:12:32] All your life, you've lived with a little metal god that you were named after, that you have him, maybe crafted out of wood.
[00:12:40] This is how you've been identified all of your life.
[00:12:44] Hey, that's the guy whose name we can't pronounce, and that's how you've been identified in life, and then Jesus steps into your life and says, yeah, you know what?
[00:12:54] Before we get going any further, we're just gonna cut this necklace off of you because you don't need this God anymore.
[00:13:03] I'm gonna be your God from here on out.
[00:13:06] And you don't need any totem poles or any statues or icons.
[00:13:13] I'm in your heart now.
[00:13:15] You don't have to wear anything over your heart because I'm in it.
[00:13:22] It's the way he rules, he's precious.
[00:13:27] He says in verse 11, um, great Herodion, my countryman. So this is interesting because when Paul says my countryman, the guy's got a Greek name. So he must've been a Jew that was somehow paganized and he's come
[00:13:47] back to faith in Jesus because Paul calls him my countryman. So that's pretty cool.
[00:13:54] This Jew that Paul is referring to was a Jew who had grown up in what was man-made Judaism then, but was given a Greek name I'd like to hear his story how did that happen I
[00:14:08] mean why was any named Samuel or Ezekiel or your honey no no he was named this pagan name but he's come to Messiah and Paul says my fellow countrymen greet those who are of the household of narcissists how'd you like to have a
[00:14:27] a name like that who are in the Lord narcissist you know was a god did you know that that's why people who are narcissistic you know narcissist according to the Greek gods narcissist was walking by one day and he saw a pool
[00:14:46] of water in a pond could have been some some say a fountain doesn't matter but was very still water and he was walking by and he looked in and he saw his reflection, and he had never seen his reflection before, and he was so incredibly blown away with
[00:15:05] how handsome he was that he fell in love with himself, and that to never disturb the water, watch this, in this belief system, narcissist actually wound up unintentionally committing suicide because he could not, once he saw himself, he couldn't think of something. Listen, those of
[00:15:28] you who have psychology degrees, listen up. Once he saw himself with his own eyes, he fell in love with himself, everything became about him, and he couldn't take his eyes off himself to the point
[00:15:41] that he wound up starving himself to death because he couldn't break the reflection of the water because he couldn't break off at looking at himself. He wouldn't disturb the water because would cause ripples so he just looked at himself until himself i know this is not grammar he looked
[00:16:02] at himself until himself he killed that's a narcissist they see only themselves it's all about them they run they they they don't care if anyone dies around them as long as that person and dice for their pleasure or for their entertainment.
[00:16:26] You must love me, narcissist says.
[00:16:30] You must, you will, love me.
[00:16:35] No, that's narcissist Latin.
[00:16:43] The Latin version would be Newsome.
[00:16:46] No, I'm kidding.
[00:16:49] He did it, that guy did it over there.
[00:16:53] Lord, it was that guy.
[00:17:00] Look, I'm old, I'm near my retirement.
[00:17:02] what do i care so isn't that a terrifying story though but you see the reality of a nurse we have more narcissists today than ever before human history you want to know why it's the same story nobody looks at themselves in the water right it's so bad it's so bad a few days
[00:17:35] ago we went to a laker game and you it's la and there are people walking crypto centers right there going across the crosswalk in la this girl she stops she goes like this in the middle of the
[00:17:52] crosswalk you're supposed to move light turns green the guy the guys are going like this she's she's like this and watch watch like this she's trying to like and this she's going like this and i'm walking i'm walking and like this and i'm walking narcissist narcissist listen wow
[00:18:28] but apparently even if your name is narcissist you can be saved from yourself God can rescue you from you because if it's only about you you're gonna starve yourself to death spiritually you'll die verse 12 greet
[00:18:51] Tryphena and Tryphosa who have labored in the Lord greet the beloved Persis who labored much in the Lord verse 13 great Rufus chosen in the Lord and his mother and mine what how sweet is that spiritual mom she must have been amazing
[00:19:11] Paul is not saying that she oh by the way she's my mom that's not his mom he's talking about Rufus and Paul they enjoyed the ministry of Rufus his mom she was amazing woman of God you have you ever watched Dennis the Menace the
[00:19:26] One that's by John Hughes.
[00:19:29] Do you remember with the, who's the great actor?
[00:19:34] His teeth fell out.
[00:19:35] The guy puts chicklets up his, what's his name?
[00:19:41] Walter Matthau.
[00:19:43] Oh my goodness.
[00:19:45] Do you, this movie depicts this kid in such a way that um he's he's such a nuisance but his heart he's you fell you fall in love with this little guy but one of the most touching scenes and i gotta tell you it's me it must be me with all
[00:20:13] the craziness of that show which is very funny there is a scene where walter mathau's wife in the show, sits down with Dennis, lays down. He's going to bed. And mom and dad are away on a
[00:20:33] business trip and she's going to read him a story. And she reads him the story of Winkin', Blinkin' and Nod. If you've never seen that scene, I want, I want a mom, I want a grandma like that.
[00:20:47] It's so sweet. Here's this little monster tyrant called Dennis the Menace. And she's reading this bedtime story I'm wondering if this woman was like that to Rufus and to Paul and how many countless others have you ever been around sweet old
[00:21:08] people who you just want to be with they kind of have your heart you know like if you doctors tell us if you get a dog your heart rate goes down I don't know if that's true or not but I believe it I choose to believe it there's something
[00:21:26] about older people in the Lord, they're a calming factor in your life. Did you see what happened?
[00:21:35] Lots of things happened. No, but did you see that one thing? Yeah, I did. What'd you think?
[00:21:42] Same thing I thought back in 38. It's all going to blow by. It's awesome. How many of you are over? Now, I know no women are going to raise. I know no women are going to raise their hands
[00:21:58] to this one. How many of you are over 60? Raise your hands. Raise your hands. Okay. How many of you are under 60? I need to see a show. Raise your hands if you're under 60. Some of you are not
[00:22:10] voting. How many of you are deaf? Yeah, see? Find yourself a spirit-filled, God-fearing, Jesus-praising older person and latch onto them. Paul had that in his life. It's a beautiful thing. Amazing.
[00:22:39] I lost my place.
[00:22:40] Where was I?
[00:22:43] Verse 13?
[00:22:44] Yes, 13.
[00:22:45] 14.
[00:22:47] Greet that guy.
[00:22:50] And the other one.
[00:22:51] And Hermas, Potrabas, Hermes.
[00:22:55] That's another god, by the way.
[00:22:57] These are all gods.
[00:22:59] And the brethren who are with them, greet, let's try this, Philologus and Julia, Nereus and his sister, and Olympus.
[00:23:12] That's a great name.
[00:23:14] If you've got to have a pagan name, that's a good name.
[00:23:17] What's your name?
[00:23:18] Olympus.
[00:23:19] You better be strong.
[00:23:21] And all the saints who are with them.
[00:23:24] Listen to verse 16.
[00:23:27] Greet one another with a holy kiss.
[00:23:29] Not here, but back in Rome.
[00:23:32] The churches of Christ greet you.
[00:23:36] Now here, here is the point.
[00:23:40] And Paul's concern.
[00:23:43] Now, I want all of you to be very, I'm very critical thinking in your mind right now when I say critical thinking I mean in that in a good way now he says it's a military term attention everybody listens up he said look I've been saying
[00:24:08] all these super sweet things to all you guys because I mean it greet you and greet you and greet you the other one and howdy doody and super neat and all that cool stuff love you all
[00:24:18] now as I'm getting ready to leave now hear this I urge you brethren note circle the word note in your bible keep your eyes on them it means mark them tag them hold them in contempt
[00:24:38] watch out for them I'm warning you who Paul who are you speaking of those who cause divisions and offenses contrary to the doctrine which you've learned and avoid them. Are you hearing this church? Gossips, tailbears, argumentative people, people that you can't win over, so stop
[00:25:07] trying. People who see wrong in everybody, Paul says, avoid them. Get away from them. People who are what are they fault finders and sin sniffers get away from them the bible says avoid them break off that friendship people who take it beyond that people who say things number one
[00:25:34] the bible says that they ought not to be saying because they don't know what they're talking about about people well it sounds like the internet people making comments first of all did you did you say like if you do something if you post something like you could say something like
[00:25:53] I love oranges.
[00:25:56] And somebody says to you, oh, you must be from either Florida or California.
[00:26:00] Boo-hoo-hoo.
[00:26:02] And it's like, have you ever seen this before?
[00:26:06] Those are sick, sick, sick people.
[00:26:09] The Bible says, note them.
[00:26:12] Mark them.
[00:26:13] Tag them.
[00:26:13] The picture is what you think.
[00:26:16] Go up to them.
[00:26:18] Get a pair of pliers and tag their ear with like number 666 on it.
[00:26:24] and they're walking around like a cow and they got the ear marked there's a guy right over there why do you take them because they are so-called christians who wherever they go they leave behind
[00:26:39] a bad conversation they can't stop they're fake they're not of us and you know them in this day and age too they cannot handle that somebody else disagrees with them you want to know why
[00:26:59] because they hung out looking at a body of water that was still and they saw their reflection and then they post something like whatever it is and if you say or if somebody says yeah whatever that's your opinion i think this and they just go into a stark raving scathing
[00:27:17] do you understand you're dealing with what the bible says never people get get upset with this you know pastor jack you need to defend yourself you need to say something that person said this you need to say something. Okay, let's all grow up for a second. All of my teachers,
[00:27:35] at least I was consistent. All of my teachers wrote my parents and said, he won't listen to anything we say. He's so stubborn. I thank God for that now that I'm saved.
[00:27:49] Because when five, six, 700 people say something about you, you need to answer what that, and you, we need an answer by two o'clock or we're going to blow you up. I don't know what it is.
[00:27:59] you know what I'm saying? As soon as I hear that, the last thing they'll ever get from me is an answer. I'm not going to give them what they want. Why? Because the Bible says,
[00:28:15] never answer a fool in their folly. So did you know, I found out this week, by the way, see, this is my last sermon. I'm leaving. I'll never see you again because I found out this week
[00:28:27] that I'm worth $25 million.
[00:28:30] Easy.
[00:28:33] I looked at my wallet.
[00:28:35] It's not there.
[00:28:37] It's not at my bank.
[00:28:39] But people posted that on the internet.
[00:28:43] Now, that would have been cool if it was true.
[00:28:45] Did I answer them back?
[00:28:49] No.
[00:28:51] Did I call my bank to see if it was really there?
[00:28:53] No.
[00:28:55] Because it's not there.
[00:28:58] But listen, you learn all kinds of things about yourself when you listen to lunatics.
[00:29:04] I don't listen to lunatics people say how do you keep standing against opposition I refuse I don't listen I refuse I by God's grace I survived an abortion I survived stuttering all my life until God miraculously healed me
[00:29:23] you go down the list I listen by God's grace I survived myself and then 36 years of full-time ministry by God's grace I have survived that I have to tell you something. I refuse to be intimidated. How can you intimidate somebody who refuses to
[00:29:43] be intimidated? Well, we don't like you. When people say, we don't like you, my honest response is, if they would only stop to realize, I totally agree with them. Most of the time, I don't like me
[00:29:59] either. Don't let anybody, especially you young people, don't let anybody handle you like that.
[00:30:09] there's an opinion that matters and there's only one and his name's Jesus and that goes for all of us folks mark them note them tag them those who cause divisions and offenses contrary to the
[00:30:26] doctrine which you've learned and avoid them for those listen for those who are such do not serve our Lord Jesus Christ but their own belly and by smooth words and flattering speech deceive the hearts of the simple. Sorry, I believe that with all my heart. Oh, Pastor Jack, this person got
[00:30:43] deceived by that guy. Let him go. Did you know that's my answer? Sorry. No, go get them. No, listen, Jesus said that he'll go after the one that strays away. He'll go get them. That's what
[00:30:56] the chief shepherd does. Okay, I'm a sheepdog. When somebody says, oh, you know what? I'm going to go with this. This guy's doing all kinds of miracles. And yeah, some false doctrine, but I'm going to go through all the, I'm going to go for all the miracles. Pastor Jack, you got to
[00:31:10] go rescue my family member. No, no, no, no. Folks, right now, God is cleaning what is called the church in the world right now and getting her ready for liftoff. There are people who are among
[00:31:23] us that are not of us. God is cleaning and preparing the bride of Christ. You keep yourself in the love of God. You obey him. You follow him. Just make sure you do not fall victim to the lies
[00:31:36] in the deceits of this age that is energized by doctrines of demons and deceiving spirits.
[00:31:45] Verse 19, for your obedience has become known to all. Therefore, I am glad on your behalf, but I want you to be wise in what is good. This is so great. Be wise in what is good.
[00:31:57] And in other words, learn all the good stuff you can and be really dumb about the evil stuff. You don't need to study evil. Well, I'm doing a research paper on morality, so I have to do 200 pages, but I've done 900 pages on pornography. Okay, you're crazy.
[00:32:19] Be innocent regarding evil things. Well, you know, we need our children to grow up. What does that mean? So many crazy parents say things like this. Well, you know, they're gonna have to grow up someday they're four years old and they see this obscene
[00:32:38] thing well you know they got to grow up someday dude man if that's your worldview I don't want you near my grandkids in fact I don't know what you near me well we're really we want to make sure everybody has a real good that
[00:32:52] they're all exposed to social the social construct of all things really that's a good idea really really are you gonna send your kid to Babylon because Babylon exists? Listen, the Bible commands us parents and grandparents to protect the innocence of our
[00:33:09] children as long as possible. Do you understand? You don't have to send them to college to learn evil. It's in our hearts already. We got to teach good into them. But for somebody to say, well,
[00:33:19] you know what? I just need my kid to be exposed to all that's out there. You're crazy because King David couldn't even handle that. Can you imagine somebody telling David, you know, David, instead instead of going to war like you're supposed to,
[00:33:33] send your army to war, you sleep in, and then take your walk in the afternoon on top of your palace, and then look over the railing and you can see down a few rooftops over,
[00:33:44] there's a woman by the name of Bathsheba, everybody knows Bathsheba, and why don't you take a peek?
[00:33:52] Isn't it funny that clearly David winds up growing, Solomon winds up growing up differently when David says, watch out.
[00:34:03] And Solomon tells his kids, don't look at an immoral woman.
[00:34:07] Of course, he didn't follow his own advice.
[00:34:12] Crazy.
[00:34:16] Verse 20, and the God of peace will crush Satan.
[00:34:19] I love this.
[00:34:21] And the God of peace will crush Satan under your feet shortly.
[00:34:25] I hope today is shortly.
[00:34:28] Grace, the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you, amen.
[00:34:31] Verse 21, Timothy, my fellow worker, And Lysias, Jason, and Sosipater, my countrymen, another Jew, greet you.
[00:34:43] Verse 22, I, this is cool.
[00:34:46] This is Paul's secretary because I wouldn't have the time to get into it.
[00:34:49] But you know how Paul had a horrible vision.
[00:34:51] Did you know that?
[00:34:52] He writes in another place that you have seen, I've written this epistle with my own hand and you have seen that I have had to write with you with giant letters.
[00:35:02] Think of that.
[00:35:03] And it says here that Tertullus, who wrote this epistle, greet you in the Lord.
[00:35:12] So Paul spoke it and he's writing.
[00:35:15] Verse 23, Gaius, my host and the host of the whole church, greets you.
[00:35:22] Erastus, the treasurer of the city, greets you.
[00:35:27] Curatus, a brother, the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you all, he says, amen.
[00:35:33] look at verse 25 he says now to him who is able to establish you according to my gospel that is the message Paul preached and the preaching of Jesus Christ according to the revelation of the mystery kept secret since the foundation
[00:35:47] of the world began but now made manifest by the prophetic scriptures church family you should love Bible prophecy because guess what Paul just said Paul just said the revelation of the gospel of Jesus Christ is prophetic scripture I
[00:36:05] just I just want to read the Gospels just know this you're reading prophecy when you read the Gospels you like that I like that I love that made known to all nations according to the commandment of the everlasting God for obedience to
[00:36:22] the faith verse 27 to God alone wise be glory through Jesus Christ forever and Amen, he says.
[00:36:32] What a precious, precious word.
[00:36:37] When your life is poured into others, this is the beauty about who we are in Christ Jesus.
[00:36:42] And you can all stand up.
[00:36:44] You can all stand.
[00:36:46] In this farewell, he's commissioning those by encouraging them.
[00:36:52] What a great way to be sent out.
[00:36:54] He commissions them by first of all telling them, I love you.
[00:36:59] I greet you.
[00:37:00] say hi to those guys make sure you greet this person give those guys a kiss can't wait to see y'all but know this protect your walks stay away from people who are divisive and know this
[00:37:19] that the Lord will establish you God will establish you he will strengthen you he's the one that unto him who is able to keep us from falling, from stumbling, and to present us faultless before his presence with glory.
[00:37:40] Father, in the name of Jesus, I pray that you would bestow upon these beautiful believers the mantle of the doctrines that we've learned in the book of Romans.
[00:37:50] And Lord, may we all be shocked to see that the Holy Spirit sovereignly, supernaturally will take what we've learned over these years and energize our lives into action.
[00:38:03] And Lord, pretty amazing to think that we will never be together like this in the book of Romans ever again.
[00:38:11] That's kind of cool.
[00:38:12] I like that.
[00:38:15] So Lord, bless them.
[00:38:18] Cause your face to shine upon them.
[00:38:21] Be watchful over them.
[00:38:23] May they not stumble.
[00:38:24] May they not fail in letting you control them, lead them, guide them, shepherd them all the way to the everlasting arms of our great God and savior, Jesus Christ and all God's people said, amen.
[00:38:39] God bless you.